Does Your Choice of Friends Represents Who You Are?

If you are a sheep and you live in a pig pen, does it mean that you are a pig? Would you behave like a pig? Eat like a pig? And wobble in mud like a pig?

Now tell me, is this saying “show me your company and I’ll tell you who you are,” true?

Sometimes we will we find ourselves in the company of people that others believe are “not good enough.” But this does not mean that we are “not good enough” because we can be in their company for a purpose.

As for me, I am always surrounded by people whose behavior and life style is out of order. This does not mean that I have a disorderly conduct.

When I am with them, I use my voice of inspiration to help them make a positive change. After-all, they are the ones, who need inspiration and motivation the most.

Let us not assume or judge anyone because of their choice of friends. A person choice of friends does not always represent the person they are.

What do you think?

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Have a great weekend!

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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Getting Better with Age

“Growing old is not all scary. You can be excited for what the future holds, too. Who cares if you get wrinkles and your body aches here and there. Make like wine and get better with age…”

Isabel Valoria . com

Some of my current anti-aging products …

Sometimes I feel OLD. My two wrinkles are particularly obvious that day, my back is aching for no reason and I’m going to bed early on a Saturday night. No wonder people complain about aging and dread growing old. Well, I’m tired of it! No, I’m not tired of getting old. I’m tired of hearing the complaints. Call me delusional, but I really don’t think it’s as bad as it seems. Here are some of my optimistic reasons why growing old means that life only gets better.

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Don’t Throw Stones

This Is How I Know That I Am Blessed

What does it really mean when some people say that they are blessed?

I have seen this term “I am blessed and highly favored” splashed all over social medias, especially Facebook and Twitter every single day. It greets me every morning, noon and night. Now, I am thinking and wondering if some of these people are just bragging and boasting but use this term just to dilute their intentions.

Maybe yes, maybe no, but who am I to judge? If they believe that the characteristics of a blessed life is having a house, a car, wealth, a great family, etc., then who am I to say that they are not blessed? I can’t because I don’t know their stories.

What I do know are the ways in which I am blessed and I will share a few with you. Heck, maybe I’m also “highly favored” but I will leave that part of it out until I’m sure.

Now let’s go…

You Are Not Powerless

No matter the situation you are facing, you are not powerless.

When you find yourself in a difficult situation instead of focusing on the difficulty, look for ways to turn it around into something wonderful.

Take charge of who you are and create a powerful and beautiful life for yourself.

Learn to dance with life and don’t sweat the small stuff.

Will you?

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#oneloVe…Dehan

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In response to Jacqueline’s Tuesday’s Trickles

 

 

How Do You Wear Your World?

Do you wear it like a girdle that is:

• tight?
• hard?
• rigid?
• uncomfortable?
• constricting?

Or is it like a garment that is:

• loose?
• free?
• easy?
• comfortable?
• flowing?
• dancing?

We have heard it over and over that life is a struggle. But I believe that life can only be a struggle to those who allow it to.

Every Blessing Comes With An Extra Burden

The Blessings and The Burdens

There is something you always prayed for. That special job, a promotion, just about anything. Finally, you got it! Yes! God answered your prayer, you have been blessed!

Now, say for instance you prayed to have a child and you got pregnant, but during the pregnancy you experienced terrible morning sicknesses and sometimes you can hardly get yourself out of bed. What do you do?

Here are 11 Opportunities That Life Has Given To Us

11 Opportunities Of Life

Sometimes we need to take a moment to reflect and appreciate the opportunities that life has given to us because without these opportunities we could not be the person we are today.

Here are 11 opportunities that life has given to us and we should be grateful for them: