Category Archives: Motivation

Be the Change You Wish to See in the World

This is so true what Lesley said, “constantly seeing oneself as a victim and complaining about one’s situation is a recipe for disaster. Victims feel powerless and feel helpless to do anything about their situations.”

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This famous quote by Mahatma Maghandi is one of my favorites. In essence Ghandi is telling us to step up and take responsibility. I think this quote speaks to the leader in all of us. And yet…so many people feel powerless to make changes in their places of work.

Over and over again I hear competent, intelligent, experienced people complain about bad bosses, co-workers who won’t pull their weight, restrictive policies and procedures, lack of information, bullying, lack of trust, and feelings of powerlessness.

Surely it doesn’t have to be this way?

What is really tragic is that many of these people LOVE the work that they do but hate the places that they work in. I have friends who have quit their jobs or taken early retirement because they could see no other way out.

One fellow worked as a professional engineer for the federal government. Toward the end of his…

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5 Important Things That You Should Do In 2017

Here are 5 simple tips that we need to bear in mind as we travel throughout 2017. If you are serious to make this year a year for you, then you will find these simple actions important. So here they are…

1. Stop trying to please others: you cannot please everyone so stop playing hero. Furthermore, no matter how hard you try some people will still not be satisfied, and they will still have bad things to say about you. Focus on your goals and aspirations, instead of focusing on a life to please the world. Live your life the way you see it fit, and be happy with it.

2. Stop carrying people’s burden: why are you doing this? Continue reading 5 Important Things That You Should Do In 2017

Why Are You So Blue?

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Come on, it can’t be all that bad! Get up and shake yourself up, get happy, smile, laugh like you are crazy..don’t you see it’s Christmas? Stop worrying, stop stressing, stop thinking about things you have no control over…just let go and live! Hey you, just remember that this is the only life you know…the only one you have!

So You Are Feeling Blue?

Did you read my post about How Do You Wear Your World? If not, you need to read it now! Ever since I wrote that post I stop stressing myself, especially over silly things, and start wearing my world like a loose garment. I want to be free! I can’t be bothered to be all choked up inside to the extent that I can’t breathe. Me….I don’t want to die at all…no way, not at all.

It feels so good to smile with the rising sun knowing that God has blessed me with a brand new day. A day I can choose to do what ever I want. So today I choose to infect anyone that passes my way with my smile.

So why are you so blue today? It’s not nice to insult your creator by complaining and feeling all sad and blue when he has given you everything you need to create your own joy and happiness.

Come on….get a hold of yourself and get up out of your little corner because that little stressful corner cannot do anything positive for you. Go out and let the wind brush your cheek, go out and smell the rain, look up in the sky and let the serenity captivate your soul.

Just get up and do something…anything that will make you smile!

#oneloVe…Dehan

NEVER STOP PUSHING

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You want to change your life for the better, so you have decided to make a radical change. A change that will transform your life in a positive way. You believe that your time has come…it’s now your time to shine.

What Did You Do?

You shared your intentions with some friends and family members.  They told you it would not work, and that it’s a bad idea. They even went as far to tell you that you were too old and you would not make it. Or maybe they tried to persuade you to wait because you were young and still has time. You became fearful, thinking that maybe they were right. So you played with your thoughts, you became troubled and kept wondering what to do. Continue reading NEVER STOP PUSHING

When Was The Last Time You Jumped For Joy?

When was the last morning you felt so happy that you started jumping for joy?

Seriously, when was the last time you really jumped for joy and it wasn’t anything huge that happened?

Many of us have not learned the art of jumping for joy. Maybe the only time we jump for joy is if something huge take place in our lives that was caused by external factors.

Don’t get me wrong now, there are many reasons for us to celebrate our external achievements but we should not be too dependent on them because we cannot allow our happiness to be dependent on things we can loose. Continue reading When Was The Last Time You Jumped For Joy?

Will You Be There When Good Luck Knocks?

I couldn’t help but to laugh when I saw this quote:

“My luck is so bad, if I bought a cemetery people would stop dying.” ~Unknown Author

If only I knew the author of this quote I would encourage him/her to purchase that cemetery so that we all enjoy a taste of good luck. After-all, who wants to die?

Anyhow, on a serious note now…please tell me:

Have you ever felt that you are in bad luck or otherwise bad lucky?

How many times have you heard others complaining about how bad lucky they are?

Maybe quite often you have heard people complaining that no matter what they try to do in life things never work out. Some will even go as far as to say that someone is trying to keep them down and people don’t want to see them strife.

What a pity!

The truth is, unpredictable things do happen that can change the results of what we intended to do or achieve. Furthermore, what we must bear in mind is that we can only plan but it is God that has the final say.

He alone knows what is good or bad for us. The things our heart desires may not be his will.

And let me tell you, when it’s your time to shine no-one can stop you. Things can be going wrong in your life, or rather you can be in bad luck, and then one day out of the blue…Bam! good luck knocks on your door.

So if you are feeling bad lucky don’t give up and don’t lay down all arms. You have to be patient, and keep on pushing so that when good luck arrives you are ready to receive it. Image result for bad luck phrases

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Misfortunes are not that bad after all

Sometimes it takes a push from misfortune for us to unleash our true potentials

Tears scrolled sadly down his cheeks.  With his hands folded tightly across his chest, the young man stared in distress at his possessions laying on the side of the road in a puddle. He slowly shook his head to and fro; accepting defeat. Just like that, he was cast out of his home with nowhere to go; no roof over his head. He was speechless at the unexpected turn in event that had crept upon  him so he stood frozen in the pelting rain and cried. Continue reading Misfortunes are not that bad after all

How Are You? do you speak the truth?

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How Are You?

Sometimes people ask you the question, “how are you doing?” and you sometimes don’t speak the truth. You say that you are fine and well but deep down inside you are troubled like hell.

And sometimes you wonder if people really want to know the truth or they just ask because it’s a kind thing to do.

At times you might even feel confuse because you just don’t know how to answer so the easiest thing for you to do is to say that, “everything is good.”

When in fact you may be: Continue reading How Are You? do you speak the truth?