How Are You?
Sometimes people ask you the question, “how are you doing?” and you sometimes don’t speak the truth. You say that you are fine and well but deep down inside you are troubled like hell.
And sometimes you wonder if people really want to know the truth or they just ask because it’s a kind thing to do.
At times you might even feel confuse because you just don’t know how to answer so the easiest thing for you to do is to say that, “everything is good.”
When in fact you may be:
- on the verge of tears
But because you do not want to be a burden to anyone or even bother to explain your sorrows you just take the easiest way out by saying,”I’m good, thank you.”
How Should You Answer?
So what should you do? how should you answer?
Speak the truth; be honest with your answer.
See if they would really stop to listen; see if they really care because to tell the truth many people do not really care they just ask because it’s the norm.
On the other hand there are people who are really concern about your well-being and who really want to know how you are doing, so speak the truth.
Tell them like it is. If you are truly happy say it and if you are very sad say it. If they really care they will listen.